friends don’t seem to trust her to pick out her own friends. They always want to know the fellow she is going out with. They want to meet the guy and sometimes talk with him. How do you feel about that? I know this girl and some others have felt pretty crummy about parents checking on them so much. Pat: I think this is another case, John, that depends on past record and attitude. If the teenager has had a record of picking rather questionable friends, I think it’s the responsible thing for the parent