down inside—“Why did God allow this to happen? Why me?” This is a very real feeling of resentment or rage. Along with this anger may be feelings of regret or guilt. One might ask—“Why didn’t I do something earlier” or other questions of blame. I once counseled a teenager who was involved in a car accident where some family members were suddenly killed. These members were not only family but his best friends, too. His anger was directed toward the driver of the other car. He wanted revenge. He wanted