down and talk with their children and explain that the rules are going to be the same for all of them. That they love them all. That being unfair and making a difference won’t work in this family. John: Well, if our listener has been adopted or wants more help, where can he go? Wade: Well, there are a number of people with whom he or she can talk. But most families had a case worker or a social worker when the child was adopted. That may be a good place to begin. But I think if being adopted really