friend of mine who told me her father had been abusing her and it was really hard for her to tell me about it. She had been through a lot. But she said it felt good to be able to tell someone about it. This has got to be one of the toughest problems to deal with, especially since it was her father who did it. If you’ve been abused you know how she must have felt, really torn up, disgusted, helpless, embarrassed, and I guess you must have felt the same way she did—really scared and not knowing what