7157 A wise lover values not so much the gift of the lover as the love of the giver. Thomas à Kempis (c. 1380–1471) 7158 Agape love is … profound concern for the well-being of another, without any desire to control that other, to be thanked by that other, or to enjoy the process. Madeleine L’Engle (1918–) 7159 Alas, oh, love is dead! How could it perish thus? No one has cared for it: It simply died of frost. Angelus Silesius (1624–1677) 7160 Anticipation is more delightful than realization in