be ready to give an answer for. Pastors must take other stands as well. At my first church, a woman came forward at an evangelistic service to commit her life to Christ. After she had attended for several months, she told me she had marriage plans and wanted me to perform the service. We talked further, and I discovered her fiance was not a Christian. I winced inside but didn’t say anything at the moment; I wanted to pray about how to approach what I knew would be a sensitive issue. Sometime later