Honor is a decision to treat your parents with dignity and with courtesy, and it’s also a decision to provide long-term loyalty to their best interests. It’s a decision, and you have to make a distinction between obeying and affection and trust and even intimacy and confiding in them and honor. You can give a person honor without all those other things, and you must. For example, adult children have a lot of trouble distinguishing these things. A lot of adult children who have manipulative, controlling,