most is what’s on the inside. Focus on her insides. Embrace the “Daughter Hippocratic Oath”: Do no harm her—don’t kill her spirit, devalue, shame, tear her down, abuse, neglect, or build insecurity into her. Rather, so deeply value her that she feels and becomes significant and secure. The first few moments in the hospital when you held her were sacred moments, and so are the next many years. You have a sacred task of raising a daughter full of life. Your daughter is a treasure, not a trophy. She is