your knees and build forts with her out of blankets. Be there to make the highs of her life happier and the lows of life more bearable. Educate yourself about her developmental process and her female needs. Give to her with a reckless abandonment so that she can flourish. And through all of that, wrap her and your relationship with her in the love of God’s scandalous grace. If you begin to do some of these things, you will be living up to the name “Dad.” The key to being with her is clear: turn your