things come through personal contact. And because that relational context for learning is lacking, life change is much rarer than it should be among Christians today. Many believers who do share their faith are spiritually immature, self-absorbed, or unwise in how they relate to the lost. As a group, Christians are known more for what we are against than for our love. As a result of our spiritual immaturity, unbelievers don’t want what we have, which is understandable. If we are spiritually immature