the way we say it is. I sure hope so. But ultimately, the only part of ourselves that we can be sure will still be left behind after we’re gone is our children.” I don’t think this pastor was a perverse man, shamelessly living off the godly expectations of others. He was simply being honest at that moment about some of the doubts and fears that assail us all at one time or another. But such questions illustrate the extent to which the secular mind-set affects even those whose lifework is dedicated