Dear Abby: Our son was married in January. Five months later his wife had a ten-pound baby girl. They said the baby was premature. Tell me, can a baby this big be that early?—Wondering Dear Wondering: The baby was on time, the wedding was late. Forget it. • Dear Abby: Do you think about dying much?—Curious Dear Curious: No, it’s the last thing I want to do. • Dear Abby: I am forty-four years old and I would like to meet a man my age with no bad habits—Rose Dear Rose: So would I. • Dear Abby: What’s