any way that I can be of assistance to you, please don’t hesitate to contact me. In Christ’s Love, [ Rev. John Doe ] Tip for this letter: Set up a reminder in Outlook to automatically remind you of the upcoming anniversary of the death of the spouse. It is helpful to set it up to remind you 1 week before the actual date. You can then send the letter in time for the grieving partner to receive it nearly on the actual anniversary date.