Introduction So what’s this “blessing” thing, anyway? This book began as a collection of illustrations and ideas to defeat a growing phenomenon—failed marriages. As husbands and wives entered Glenn’s office for counseling and discipling, a clear pattern emerged. Most marriages weren’t crashing and burning, they were dying over a period of years from indifference, neglect, and even ignorance. Both of us have friends and colleagues who describe their marriage as empty and meaningless, somehow the passion