by Aaron Sironi* Recently, I met with a successful businesswoman who entered counseling after her husband revealed that he was fearful and leery of her resentment, bitterness, and anger. This painful conversation brought her into counseling with me. As I listened to her describe her relationship with her husband, I was increasingly interested in knowing how she was able to maintain her forty year marriage to a man against whom she held such ill will. So I asked. Her response