sometimes you speak out (Prov. 17:9, 27:5). What should you do? The answer, of course, is “it depends.” You begin with the fear of the Lord, you learn from similar situations, you get the counsel of others, you keep checking your own heart and its motives, you remember your limitations, you rehearse the law of love, you recognize that keeping everyone happy is impossible, but there are ways you can speak that encourage conciliation, mutual understanding and unity, and so on. These are just a handful