through the Son and the Spirit I can then extend to others. By the way, forgiveness is treated the same way in the Bible! The second question I ask the couple contemplating marriage is: “What convinces you that God is calling you together as husband and wife?” Most people expect the question to be, “Why do you want to get married?” This latter question is often the question they answer when I ask the second question. I usually have to reiterate the idea of being called together rather than merely