First, refuse to live like a victim! When I decided to stop looking for sympathy and start looking for solutions, I began to get well. God opens doors, but when He does, we’ve got to walk through them and accept responsibility for our future. Second, isolate the problem. Everybody is not the same. I had to learn not to let what one or two people did to me infect every other relationship in my life. Once I was able to isolate the event, I could stop the enemy from using the past to rob me of the future.