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Why You Do the Things You Do: The Secret to Healthy Relationships is unavailable, but you can change that!

In this transformational book, the authors have used ground-breaking research to develop four primary patterns of relating to one another that shed light on our actions--and how we can learn to love and be loved even better.

FIVE CHARACTERISTICS OF A HEALTHY, SECURE RELATIONSHIP 1. We seek proximity (closeness) to the caregiver, especially in times of trouble. 2. The caregiver provides a safe haven, a felt sense of security. 3. The caregiver offers us a secure base from which to explore the world. 4. Any threat of separation induces fear and anxiety. 5. Loss of the caregiver prompts grief and sorrow. Before Frank’s death, Rita walked closely with the Lord. She went to church,