You will need to become quietly observant. Really listen to what your teen says or doesn’t say. Watch the body language; remember, most communication is nonverbal. Again, we’ll talk more in depth about this later, but start watching more and lecturing less now. Bringing It Home This section requires action. I want you to spend some time thinking about, considering, and observing your teen, especially in regard to the characteristics we’ve talked about in this chapter. No matter how good you are