It’s a long time ago, and sadly I can’t find the notes of what I said. But the lesson of the story is so massive and obvious that I don’t really need to look it up. There are several ways of putting the point. Every time you accuse someone else, you accuse yourself. Every time you forgive someone else, though, you pass on a drop of water out of the bucketful that God has already given you. From God’s point of view, the distance between being ordinarily sinful (what we all are) and extremely sinful