Self-esteem—Your son’s self-esteem will be largely dependent upon the recognition, attention, and appreciation he receives from you. A son who holds himself in high regard is better able to accept the worth and potential of others. Freedom—Your son will need your “okay” to explore, to be independent, and to make decisions on his own. Although he will need reasonable limits, your son will require the space to be himself. You may want to think through some issues now, like long hair, piercings, or—