Tory Hayden, an early childhood expert, reports that of 250 children interviewed, ages four to seventeen, almost all of them said they wished their families talked more.[6] Our sons do not only need to see us living lives that are worth imitating, they also need to hear why we do it—the values and beliefs that guide our actions and shape our words. As mentors, as teachers-for-life, we become for our sons a reference point not only for how things are done, but why they are done. Our power as fathers