want to spend the rest of your life with? Listen carefully. Can you match this list with who you are and what you have to offer? It’s essential to clarify these in advance because these qualities won’t change easily and could become demands. Sometimes “shopping lists” are reasonable. Sometimes they’re not. 36. What is there in your life that you never want to change or that you would never be able to let go of? This question gives you insight into your partner’s values. It’s good to know about these