way? We all have significant people in our lives. Some have been mentors who have helped us grow. Unfortunately, sometimes we are influenced in dysfunctional ways that can hamper relationships. When we identify people and their impact, often what we do and why we do it takes on a new meaning. 30. Could you describe the people in your life who are the easiest to get along with and those who are the most difficult? Which list is longer? Is your partner someone who has people skills? If they struggle