with you, and three reasons they wouldn’t? This soul-searching and personal question helps you know how well your partner knows himself or herself. Are there reasons you would have for being together or not being together? The responses could elicit some extended discussions. Could you predict their answers? If so, you know your partner quite well. One last thought—if they have no answer to the last part of the question, be cautious. 6. What have you learned from your previous relationships that will