quite revolutionary in helping men discover the language of their soul—a language in which every man must become fluent if he wants his soul to be free. Initially, I ask men to identify and write out fifty deep thirsts or longings in their hearts. Most men, however, don’t even have a category for thinking about such a question. “Do you mean, what are my goals?” they ask. Or, “Do you mean, what is my five-year plan?” Or, “Oh, right, yes! I want to take my wife on a nice trip for our anniversary—that’s