“In light of where I’ve been, where I am today, and who I intend to become in the future, what is the wise thing to do in this situation?” Even simpler, you could ask, “What’s my goal, and will this clearly move me in the direction of my goal?” Or, “How might this decision affect me twenty years from now?” Another question is, “How might this decision affect me one thousand years from now?” That one should get you thinking! Remember, feelings come and go, but consequences last forever. The quality