possible, of course, that the individual to whom you confess your challenges with pornography will either dismiss you or ridicule you. If that happens, you will have discovered something extremely important and significant about that person—he is not someone you should include in your inner circle of friends or confidants. In fact, in some cases, the relationship you had with the person may have helped cause or perpetuate the circumstances, emotions, or feelings that have often led you to use pornography.