issue is God wanting our heart, and while he puts certain desires and dreams in our heart, those dreams (which are limited to our own perspective) are not the ultimate goal. The ultimate goal is to find harmony, peace, and unity with Christ. To understand this is to be free. To understand this is to grab hold of a dream far bigger than the dream we think we have. After all, honestly ask yourself, would you rather have what you think you want for your life but still be addicted to pornography, or