our own appetites and deprive us of the relationships that make our lives fulfilling. A marriage built on the foundation of persons finding happiness by using one another ignores the deepest passions God has placed in our hearts by his Spirit. We discover the happiness God intends for our lives only when we use the resources and privileges God has given us for the good of another. By exercising the sacrificial love Christ exhibited, we deepen our understanding of God’s care, discovering our value