When we use the term “personality,” we’re referring to those emotional and psychological features of our immaterial selves that influence and even govern how we relate to others. No one’s really able to draw a line around the personality and define it with really great precision, so I do want you to kind of latch on to some key concepts here, though. We are referring to emotional and psychological features of our immaterial selves. We could think in terms of this including our cognitions—how we think.