if you lived honestly, your life would heal itself. I believe those words, and I believe that God believes those words (if that makes sense to you), that change includes the necessity of becoming more honest with what reality actually is and opening our heart up to that truth. Change also includes encouragement to lean on God, to risk a different approach to living. So often, we’ve been trying hard to make things go away, to assume that they don’t matter, that they don’t count, whatever it might