I want to emphasize how important it is that it’s your responsibility when you’re counseling people to create these conditions of trust. We need to have the highest ethical standards and concern for peoples’ ethical living, and I take that very seriously. But we need to do so in what I would call a grace-dominant way that communicates fundamentally that we are for the person and not their enemy. And that means modeling God’s agape love in our interactions with them, modeling a gracious, sweet spirit,