marital problems with a third party involved. In every case I asked the unfaithful partner the same question, “What is it that attracted you to this person?” In every single case the answer was essentially the same, “He made me feel like a woman,” or “She made me feel like a man again.” It’s easy to make a woman feel like a woman during courtship. It’s not so easy to do it in marriage. It simply cannot be done if the wife is considered secondary in importance. When Paul speaks of the necessity of