experienced. You must learn to forgive and forget; put these bad experiences behind you and get on serving God and others.” His advice was tragic in that it had enough of a ring of truth to pass unobstructed and unchallenged into her heart. The forgive-and-forget approach to forgiveness left her hopeless. She tried to repent, but she still felt hurt. She felt anger and wanted people to take responsibility for their sin. She felt that the Christian ministry that accepted her daughter in the music