The real question is whether I myself, in my own unique set of circumstances, am giving glory and thanks to God from my heart. If I am not, then it makes no difference whether the problem I face is a big thing or a little thing. For the smallest of complaints can spoil fellowship with God. Just one. We see this principle plainly illustrated in marriage, where it can happen that just one unresolved tension, just one episode of stubbornness, just one dirty sock or unmowed lawn can be enough to provoke