my mind just before I started to feel this way? • What does this say about me, if it’s true? • What does this mean about me, my life, my future? • What am I afraid might happen? • What is the worst thing that could happen, if this is true? • What does this mean about how the other person(s) feel(s)/think(s) about me? • What does this mean about the other person(s) or people in general? • What images or memories do I have in this situation?[14] By doing this, Stephanie can steal the power from her automatic