recently when the image of a male co-worker has popped into her mind. I don’t mean to think about him in a romantic way! she worries. So why do I find myself imagining a romantic fantasy world with him? I love my husband, and I don’t want anyone else! It’s like my mind never turns off! she frets, recalling a magazine article that claimed women’s minds are always “on.” Do men have this problem? Because it sure seems like my husband’s comes on when it needs to, and then turns off until he needs it