size. Likewise, people or relationships that are screwed up wrap around the actions and responses of each other, becoming entangled with a disproportionate amount of strength. The slowly built and twisted complexity of the troublesome relationship develops as wrong actions spin off wrong responses. Psychologists label this twisting process codependency. Our unhealthy actions and responses spin around our interactions with difficult, abusive, troubled, or needy people. These spin-off or spin-around