Second, a person who leaves is still under the illusion that people can fill people. They have simply chosen to exchange one false god, who has not been able to fill them, for another that promises to. If a Christian realizes they are on the brink of adultery and turns to a counselor for help, they too often receive counsel that they should simply try harder in their marriage. But if the inner, spiritual patterns of idolatry are not addressed, the couple is destined to clone those patterns in future