God’s job is to fix and to change. Our job is to depend, serve, and equip. This is the work of grace. And it is more restful than you can imagine. As you change your mind about what your job really is, you are going to discover that you are more capable as a spouse or parent than you thought you were. You don’t have to keep fixing those old relationships, even though it seems you have spent most of your life working on them. God and you can build anew with the people you love, relationships that