“If the devil can’t make you bad, he will make you busy.” That is true! Most people are too busy and depleted to make their marriage a priority. Physical exhaustion drains the romance out of a marriage. Bill Hybels, one of the great pastors of our day, described a season of his marriage this way: “Years of fast pace and high pressure had made us both pretty awful people to live with. Our marriage seemed more like a business partnership, a joint venture, than like an intimate, loving union.”1 When