about victimization begins when you say, “Yes, I was assaulted, and those who hurt me took something away I can never get back.” The past, no matter how painful and overwhelming, may seem like an enemy. But in the process of healing, such memories are being used by God to transform us, not destroy us. What others did to you with evil intents to harm, God uses for good for you and others.y Romans 8:28 promises: “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those