but true friendship relies on cultivation: uprooting bad attitudes, planting daily seeds of love towards one another, pulling out weeds and eliminating pests that threaten to choke the relationship, watering the tender plants with daily prayer, and then taking time to reap a harvest of love and enjoyment in each other’s company. We must resist the laziness and ingratitude that often creep into marriage. Before you were married, didn’t you invest a lot in each other? You couldn’t wait to be together,