But each of those psalms ends on a note of trust in God. These psalmists didn’t allow their whys to drag on or to take root and grow into accusations against God. Their whys were really cries of anguish, a natural reaction to pain. Though we should never be demanding, we may and should ask God to enable us to understand what He’s teaching us through a particular experience. But even here, we must trust that He’s working in these experiences for our good, even when we recognize no beneficial results.