(Ephesians 2:8-9). The predicament of many disillusioned spouses is that they can be tempted to love Christ less in their trials. We measure how much we love Jesus by what He has done for us lately instead of what He already did on our behalf. He saved us from eternal separation and hell, and yet we are more concerned with the here and now. We quickly forget how undeserving we are of His matchless grace and are more concerned with the way we have been offended and betrayed. You may think I am minimizing