when I’m facing an important choice in any area, I seek to be open to all alternatives. I consider each possibility deeply. I ask myself the question, Will this move me closer to God or farther away? Is it congruent with becoming the person I believe God created me to be? On the other hand, sometimes people use criteria that are less than helpful to discern God’s will. Recognizing the angst of difficult decision making can help you avoid one of the