If we believe God’s in charge, then our complaints are about him. How dare he not give us what we want, when we want it? We should see things as they are. We deserve expulsion; God gives us a diploma. We deserve the electric chair; he gives us a parade. Anything less than overwhelming gratitude should be unthinkable. He owes us nothing. We owe him everything. A “Dear Abby” letter read, “Happiness is having parents that trust you. Happiness is getting the telephone call you’ve been praying for. Happiness