In other words, our adult problems highlight the wounds of the past and bring the specific need for healing into the light where it can be seen. Recognizing our need is the first step in the healing process. The adult behavioral manifestations can be summarized like this: • Existence issues are struggles with life and death that range from ambivalence about life to suicidal thoughts and compulsions. • Rejection may be actual, or it may be a denial of acceptance, care and love, which causes a